We have to thank Christian Grey and his fifty shades of kink for elevating the blindfold to the lofty position of being the sexiest prop ever! Are you still not convinced about just how hot your sex session could get with the use of a blindfold? Get that silky garment of cloth in the bedroom and you won’t see these sex positions in the same light anymore!
Tease time: Give him a preview of what is to come (no pun intended). Have him tie the blindfold around your eyes and then leave you alone. Well, not completely. You go to town blinded and he watches you. Masturbating blindfolded will help you let go of whatever inhibitions you may have and for him, it is a sight he won’t get enough of. Want to take this up a notch further? Dare him to ONLY watch you for five minutes and if he loses (he will!), you get to have your way with him for the night.
Blind lap dance: For him, that is. Let him get a glimpse of you in your sexy wear before you blindfold him. Turn your seductress mode on and tease him for a while before you take control of his hands and move them just the way you want it, where you want it. All the while moving your hips in an eight-figure motion as you bounce and dance away on his lap. The high of being completely in control, coupled with the ecstatic expressions his face is bound to show, guarantee an orgasm you won’t forget!
Go deep: Sex up the sitting cowgirl position by blindfolding each other. And then, let your other senses kick into action. Heavy breathing, deep moans, pelvic squeezes, tracing sweet-nothings with your tongue—this intimate position gets hotter since you will be relying completely on being able to feel his thrust and rhythm to stay in sync. Now that’s what we mean by ‘going deep’.
Two is better than one: Cut off his sight and things get hot and heavy. Cut off his sense of touch and the temperature just soars through the roof! Instead of using just a blindfold, have your partner lie down on his back and also tie his wrists to the headboard (If he just got back from work, use his tie for some after hours fun. Wink wink). You could then use a mixture of hot and cold things and tease or tickle him with different sensations. It might be slow torture for him to not be able to see or touch you but the fruit of patience is always sweet, right?
At your service: Add a blindfold to plain Jane missionary and this position will never be boring again. This position works well if both of you want to try out a blindfold. It lets you explore each other’s bodies using your hands, fingers or tongues. If a mutual sensory deprivation is not your style, you two could even take turns playing dominant and make the other partner wear a blindfold and instruct them on how to pleasure you.